panda2009
Re:Ask HN: What is wrong with dating in 2022?
on Sunday February 06, 2022 @10:02PM (#30239783)
TL/DR: bring back the old OKCupid features. There’s a lot of pent-up demand for it.
I’m surprised none of the existing comments contrast the unproductive on-line dating of today with the very successful OKCupid model of the mid 2000s to the mid 2010s. Practically everyone I know ( myself, siblings, and more college friends than I can count on one hand) met their spouse on OKCupid during this time period. The old OKCupid where people filled out quizzes and the software just gave them a compatibility score ( based on their answers ) worked exceedingly well.
OKCupid got sold to the match group around this time, and they started aggressively removing features, such as search and messaging. This made it effectively a tinder clone, which works for nobody.