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Re:Why are sex workers forced to wear a financial scarlet letter? on Wednesday September 28, 2022 @01:11PM (#33010429)
> trauma from sex work is no worse than trauma people face on the front lines, yet one is acceptable and one's not. That's a somewhat arbitrary construct.

Thank you for distilling this.

Re:Why are sex workers forced to wear a financial scarlet letter? on Wednesday September 28, 2022 @01:09PM (#33010406)
> If you as a man weren't willing to fight, be it the army or your home, good luck attracting a mate for most of history

Most men, for significant parts of history, weew explicitly excluded from joining the army (e.g. Roman armies were only "staffed" by citizens). Where are you getting the idea that most men had to fight at home? Do you have any relevant sources for this?

> The vast majority of men aren't attracted to promiscuous women looking for the next meal ticket.

Ew. I generally prefer not to pass judgement, but this is an unpleasant turn of phrase in the exposition of your idea.

> No amount of reasoning changes dynamics that have existed for millions of years

Anatomically modern humans have only been around for ~300k years, civilisation ~5k. What millions of years of dynamics are you talking about exactly?

Examples of reasoning changing dynamics that have "existed for millions of years:"

- Money - Democracy - Contracts - etc.

> what sex workers and their clientele resemble

What do they resemble to you? Is this a modern conception or one that has existed for millions of years?

Re:Why are sex workers forced to wear a financial scarlet letter? on Wednesday September 28, 2022 @10:28AM (#33008369)
> The army has always been glorified as a country without soldiers is free pickings

That is your own conlcusion. Historically armies were "staffed" by nobles. You couldn't be a soldier if you didn't have land or title, so it started out as something of prestigious and exclusive (as an alternative explanation why it was/is glorified).

My point isn't that we should see sex work as important as being a soldier (though this is still somewhat subjective). My point is that people do things _as jobs_ that can have psycological impacts. Soldiers are not treated in some different class to other jobs. They are treated essentially the same: people have contracts, insurance, pensions, etc.

why is sex work different?

> The fact you specifically discriminate between men and women gives it away

Thank you for pointing this out.

> We consider both the purity of women and the willingness for men to sacrifice themselves and be assertive as virtues.

Who is we?

> Now turn it around and you have your answer as to the status quo for almost our entire existence across the entire globe.

I don't understand what you are trying to say here.

Re:Why are sex workers forced to wear a financial scarlet letter? on Wednesday September 28, 2022 @10:16AM (#33008212)
Yes, I am agreeing with this position.
Re:Why are sex workers forced to wear a financial scarlet letter? on Wednesday September 28, 2022 @09:34AM (#33007734)
> but there are no shortage of people who also end up with psychological damage from their jobs outside of sex work

Not to labour the point but: cf Soldiers.

Men can take the emotional and physical toll but women can't?

edit: just to expand on this, talk to people who have been on military tours about the horrors of draging dead bodies (that they might have killed) from the road side, the pain of loosing friends, being away from your family etc.

Re:Why are sex workers forced to wear a financial scarlet letter? on Wednesday September 28, 2022 @09:33AM (#33007709)
Do you apply the same logic to being a soldier?

I would argue that being contracted to kill other people other people is very different from other jobs. But we still provide them with insurance, healthcare, acceptance, etc, why not sex work?