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Re:Talking to 35 Strangers at the Gym on Monday May 04, 2026 @10:39AM (#48009363)
Did I say not to read the book?
Re:Talking to 35 Strangers at the Gym on Monday May 04, 2026 @10:08AM (#48009001)
Well, your instinct is right from the title. “influence” is a euphemism for “manipulate.”

Affecting influence is subtle manipulation. A compliment about someone’s hair is great if you genuinely admire their hair.

But if you read a book about influencing people and suddenly start complimenting people’s hair, time for some introspection.

Yes, because it’s still hiding. I can hide from a clicker because they can’t see me. But if I make a noise, they might suck my face off and inject with spores.