heathl
The two of you have different priorities. You are both right and both wrong.
It's not really the kind of thing that requires a citation. However it's trivial to Google and see there are a whole range of opinions on the matter.
You can never be 100%, you're right. You can be aware of common attack vectors and address them though. You can be aware of what resources are most vital to protect or are common targets in your industry and focus your efforts.
Most people actually in security will tell you the same.
It's going to be rarer to find something of that scope, maybe even to the point of you being effectively right.
Version 7 is freeware now. Sure you don't get the decompiler and you're limited on target architectures, but it's still an amazing piece of software.