hahaha999

Sounds to me you just described every overworked family. In buying the lie that constant consumption/fashion is the path to happiness. The landowning elites in your model are still doing the same thing. Coercion is still happening, yeah it's not by physically violent means but psychological and societal peer pressure.

An non-brainwashed family would probably work less if they realized that they can optimize for resilience and regain their freedom.

Good luck turning off the media.

Then add the foundational component called debt(financial,other types) to these relationships and you really have a match for your model.