folnol

> You want a trans women to be forced to use men's toilets

They are men, so this is what they should be using. Or unisex facilities if available.

> where they will be insulted, groped, spit on, punched, and assaulted

The prospect of male-on-male violence, or the rhetorical fantasy of it, is no reason to permit males to impose themselves upon female spaces.

As a rhetorical strategy, bringing suicide into an argument in a way that pressures the other person to comply has to be amongst the most contemptible forms of moral coercion.

But they are men. Specifically, they are men who call themselves women.

Perhaps instead of accusing people of being bigots, you should reconsider your ludicrous and sexist belief that "woman" is nothing more than an identity for men to appropriate as they please.