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1. dumb as possible, no OEM OS like webos/roku etc. use ext. smart box
2. HDMI w CEC to be controllable w/ ext receiver
3. LCD/OLED have burn-in like your phone. just fyi. Particularly OLED.
4. want local dimming
5. want HDR's as many as it supports
6. you want class A screens likes of which manuf are; sharp, sony etc.. but now includes lowend like Vizio
7. look at reviews for screen edge bleeding.. I hate that.
IMHO every brand at every model level has diff screen/tech so one can't definitively say one brand is better. Your budget should dictate what you end up buying. I think what one sees is subjective. Only reviews showing things like contrast levels, bleeding and color reproduction are you only objective parameters to steer you.
[EDIT] forgot to mention that if you like so many others use ext. box to stream. Remember that all your TV settings for color, Hz etc can be over written by your ext box. So the quality of your ext. streamer will also dictate the quality of your videos.
How many times have you gone to your doc and get asked a basic "when did this start?" question and/or what were you doing 2 mons when it started.
There is a evolution in health care monitoring going on which can lead to incredible insights into your health both mental and physical, but then so does the world where it may judge you based on what you have now that you can't keep anything a secret.
What you and I area looking for in essence is a life coach. I'm not one but fatherless all my life, it seems having someone to bounce ideas and finding purpose may help. Not necessarily that i have an answer for either of us but having no one to talk to doesn't help. Wife is not someone whom this topic is either ideal or would go too well.
Again, I'm not selling you anything but to tell you I feel the same. Just looking for a chat bud who is maybe willing to share each other's burden but also maybe the sounding board will shed some light in the end of the tunnel.
In my 40's w a 2yr toddler and wife, I'm about to be jobless after my contract ends. thank god! but not thankful not knowing what to do next....
A fulltime father of a 2yr old. Few bullet points on what I wish I had from the beginning.
1. <5mons tons of skin to skin, lotsa of low calming talk to your baby, soothing music w/o words like works from Claude Debussy, smile/laugh at every chance.
2. <9mons while baby on their back, move their legs like army crawling, lotsa of stomach time.
3. >10mons 2 individuals who seem to contradict, but same messages: (just a few quick potent sound bites)
- Jordan Peterson : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5cTyxJWZC7k
- *Gabor Mate\ : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcPPDbvGr7s, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H9B5mYfBPlY
4. Your child will mimic your every move, talk, and reactions. They basically are your mini me. When they say, the are reflections of you they aren't kidding. The few times I talked aspirated or over excited happy or angry, I witnessed my child re-enacting it later including the few words he remembers. Kinda scary. So point #4: you need to change who you are completely. If you want to raise a calm, gentle, compassionate, humble, caring, empathetic child. You need to show that in every thing you do. If your child acts out or "misbehaves" or something you don't approve of. It's not them, it's you they are reflecting. Again, you need to show not tell. At this age and reasoning level, they have ZERO comprehension of your words, only your tone and body language.5. Join a dad's group. Even if you don't receive "support" or advice, just by listening to others who will have gone through the same you have helps.
6. Although your child nor mine isn't quite that age yet, Super Nanny shows on youtube are very helpful.
7. They need to be exposed to many diff kinds of people (race, gender etc.) But biggest difference is exposing them to other children their size and age.
8. Mom to join a Mom's group. That's a must for her. She needs an outlet and support only other mothers can give. Not her mothers or mother in-law. That's too close for comfort.
9. Mother's groups vastly by them donating outgrown toys/clothes. We are midincome like yourselves but this donation and also paying it forward is a social thing not necessarily although does help a financial thing.
My child can't tell me what they feel or think because they don't have the words....yet. So they get unresponsive, "disrespectful", misbehaves etc.. It isn't because they want to, its because they don't yet know how to tell you how they feel or think. It's frustration at it's fullest. They can't yet control their emotions either so it seems almost bipolar; mad/happy.
By the age or 7+ they are their own person and if you want them to be a good person, you must show NOT tell them how to now.
I also learned this when I volunteered to be a Big Brother to 3 boys who have now grown. they were 5,6,8. And because they weren't my kids to "discipline." I had to use what I know now by Gabor Mate' way of compassionate talking and acting. I had to "show" them howto not give them pointless endless lectures.
Bottomline, one thing you will need to be are: thick skinned bc you will need to do this in public too, and have patience as if you're literally watching paint dry.
[EDIT] Didn't put down anything pre-baby. Here are some thoughts: 1. you need a play area for the child that is so baby-proofed that it's basically a padded cell. Having a gate to corral them is a must unless you have plenty of rooms and can dedicate an entire room for them.
2. you need to support your wife who pushed out a bowling out of her you know what. Unless you can or did too, you need to baby her as much as you baby you new child. This means endless washing dishes, clothes, entire house. No I'm too tired BS. You have no choice of the matter unless, you're wealthy enough to afford maids. You will be tired... period. Your life as you know it will no longer exist.. period. You will have to change yourself in so many ways, you may not recognize yourself in the end. However, what you becomes is; more compassionate, sensitive, empathetic, patient, caring.
3. babies <6mons loves large black/white images. They can only see shadows of light and dark so get books to show them.
4. Bath times are precious. I did and still do all of the bathing. At my child's age of 2, although nursary rhymes are good, at bath time, I play the Supremes, chantels and at play time I play a lot of Baroque.
5. Take as *many* pictures and video as you can!! Since it's digital, no cost! However, you need to housekeep all that pic/video regularly as it will get out of hand.
6. Apps we use that are a must:
a) Baby Tracker https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.nighp.babytracker_android&hl=en&gl=US
b) Google Keep (shared with spouse) for the following:
1. Milestone : keeping track of any differences and milestone achieving
2. Needs like food/clothing/toys
c) Wonder Weeks : https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.twisevictory.apps&hl=en_US&gl=US
7. Dedicated baby monitor and a security cam where you can record and of course view from outside house.8. Sound machine is a must.
9. Baby needs to be swaddled and temps always around 68-71 sleeping.
I have to stop here.. omg. So much info and I feel I've given only 10% of what I've learned.
Your life as you know will change...period. And you'll have to learn what you may have pushed out like nutrition, psychology for both parents and child.
Learn to LOVE washing milk bottles.
Actually it's much like the old days of road trips where your trip isn't just the destination but the route to the your destination can be fun too.
PS> you can get onto Tesla's site and plan your trip. you can see for yourself depending on the Tesla model where you'll need to divert to charge if even needing to divert. Most Superchargers are along most major thoroughfares including some destination like SF Zoo has SC too. Here's the link: https://www.tesla.com/trips Here's a route from SF to LA based on my Model 3
https://www.tesla.com/trips#/?v=M3_2020_StandardRangePlus&o=...
Also go on reddit, HN commenters don't vent here, but you can find plenty of venting on reddit. You will no doubt find problems to resolve and if that isn't enough. There is even a sub for startup app ideas where people for the most part not capable of developing it themselves come there to "vent" why isn't there an app that does ...... ?
There was one partnership that did work. Primarily I suspect due to lack of "Ivy league" connections: Steve Jobs/Woz. Two very naïve but smart people lacking the not yet tainted by the ivy leaguers created an empire built on good foundation. Albeit Jobs could have been nicer ;) I worked in his environment and he was scary as you see him on shows dramatized or not. Met him in hallways/cafe.. he never ever smiled but did worship him. He knew what to steal, how to exploit then productize to make people happy. Honestly, 90% of the products he facilitated would never have seen the light of day. Case and point: Xerox's mouse and desktop.
I think your situation is ALL of our situation. We are ALL kickass eng but no connections, no non-tech ie sales/marketing, no industry specific insight and the lack of key to your success: inside connections.
Startups need VC's not for money but for the connections. VC helps the startups get not only in touch with people who makes decisions for the company but moreover have the ability to convince/convey/"pressure" them to at least give you a try. Another reason for VC's; make other startups use your product to launch theirs. Case and point: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marc_Andreessen He epitomizes that once you have that inside connection, you can make a 1+1 tool for a million dollars and the entire industry will jump on board and pay whatever it takes. It's amazing how people with no clue can quickly build up a company to add 1+1 and turn it into a billion dollar company and you can't even though yours for fraction of the price can do 1+2.
I've been in Silicon Valley and at various FAANG/M to now have a clue to how things work.
My observations:
1. Best products never gets greenlighted....never. Mind boggling.... but true. Decision makers are almost always a non-tech.
2. Company IT's are always looking for sweet deals, kickbacks, no brain implementation/integration and ungodly support
3. Company IT's 90% of work almost always comes from integrating various mismatched platforms
4. enduser's pain is almost never considered. decision process is almost always based on a single usecase for high level's myopic viewpoints.
All above reasons why internals in enterprises absolutely sucks. ABSOLUTELY. You would be blown over by how backwards antique sw is being used by the likes of Apple, Amazon, Cisco, Microsoft and most fortune 500 runs inside because I've worked for most of the top 10 techs. and the worst piece of crap sw: SAP. Every company has this painpoint because it/they integrate all of other barely working junk platforms. So enterprises are basically crippled by an idiot who built their initial foundation. Probably because they lacked the knowledge, took the lowest barrier to entry and big tech junk constantly in their faces and no limit to funds. This is where the big boys like SAP work their evil to get you onto their legacy platform which makes you stuck forever. Once on it, the changes you have to make to your internals are resource impossible. I remember a little while back when I went to HR in a top 10 tech. The sw a HR person was using launched a bunch of DOS window to do some execution. It was unreal.
This brings along another enterprise unicorn: Atlassian. I've been using it for years and there is a reason why they are able to create an eco around their sw.. mainly because their sw platform is so lacking. The most popular extension just to make confluence workable was a tiny little plugin a person was making millions from because confluence simply lacked some key fundamental func. So you have to wonder, how in the world did they get their foot in the door? I (prgm mgr) became a demigod of sorts after I was able to do "magical" basic func using their REST API.
Bottomline, if you're looking to get into enterprise and you have no connections, and no industry standing (your partners in crime and/or an industry leader in a specific field) you will never break in... never. This is why many startups are emphasizing by saying s/he worked at FAANG which for whatever reason makes them god in their field and should be taken seriously regardless of their position.
If you're trying to do cold calling, best to do is at tradeshows which IT people love going to. They get treated like royalties and get "kickbacks."
However now with the advent of social media, if you can make a splash with some specific viral video that spotlights your product. You could get noticed and get your foot in the door.
Another demo you can hit if you're B2B are SMB's. They usually lack the big boy's connections and are willing to take a risk in reducing cost, overhead, personnel and infra costs.
Finally, if you're B2C product, then your best and only bet is social media engagement with an influencer.
I'm sorry for you to think you'll get notice from enterprise procurement here in HN. Personally i don't think it will happen. I think most of us are either bored dev's, retired or bored non-influencers. Those people you so desperately want attention from, treats their work strictly 8-5 and do cocktail parties with visibility to sell themselves. Sorry, they are not scouring the web for best solutions. They are looking for best solutions for themselves which does not mean best for company. Think if you're trying to get T rump's attention, you have a choice: cheap fast food now with diet coke or showcase best in class enterprise sw that will save money, time and people's lives? Which do you think he will pay attention to?
However, having said that, you can make it into the fray by yes, focusing on niche. Case Study: Stripe. They focused on reducing painpoints for webdev's. Once they got traction with an army of webdev's. That got the VC's attention, VC's joined in giving Stripe connections to decision makers and rest is history. If you feel you got what people who build things need to reduce their cost/pain expeditiously. Then you need to be in that dev's viewpoint; Stackoverflow, Medium articles and all other dev landing zones; DZone etc.
Good luck.
I suspect like most, your teams are overseas ie Romania/Spain etc. Lots good talent, focused so hinders my willingness to try something that isn't out there yet only to be overrun by talents who can crank it out in a day.
Like all indies, I do not have team/business currently to administrate/PR this to public mind's eye. Not to mention that in itself will be more time consuming than coding it.
Let me chew on this and see if there may be a small prj. How are you on pwa/vue? and unity?
Can you tell me more about your team? members, skillsets, knowledge expertise?
hum.. just tried loading your sites and it crashed Brave....never seen anything crash any of my browsers ;)
What is your stance on collaboration based on equity? Some I may pay others, thinking of equity instead. What are your thoughts?
Only thing holding me back is app/idea stealth and competition. What would hold your group back from implementing same and deploy in countries I can't touch? Of course, inevitable if it's worth while, copycats everywhere. So my main concern is stealth and competition since easier for you to move on it.
What's the clause / non-compete agreement?
What's the ballpark $ a complete E2E from provided wireframe? I also provide the UX/UI/graphics etc. Let's say Instagram equal. as PWA/Vuejs w some sort of auth/db? Another MVP may be Unity3D again, provide all assets. Both to live on say.. GCE vm.
I would be cautious since they are doing nothing but feeding you what they feel are "essential" gut bacterias.
the danger is, there has to be a balance. You can have an overgrowth that you may not be able to reverse.
Again, I think this article exemplifies what we don't yet know so, a company providing a ready made solution seems a little much?
The best thing you can do for your gut isn't yet practical which is to find a bio/genetic/ethnic compatible person and do an FMT and do the rebalancing this company is promising for real. yeah. a bit futuristic but have been done and proven to work if you need helping an aliment such as Crohn's.
From all that gather, the cause and effect like one bacteria's waste is another's feed to yet another etc.. I do know yes, we found certain vitamins are made in the gut including many hormones like why is 90% of Serotonin made in colon but bulk of it is used in the brain? It has been found that there are neurons in our gut thus the "2nd brain" Hypothesis.
Not going into specifics, I can tell you without a doubt my fasting has made a huge impact to my health although I'm not doing it long enough >5 days nor often enough. Further that by eating garbage high carb/sugar when back to "normal."
It's been speculated and I believe it's for real that if everyone fasts at least one full day a week and do IM 16:8 the rest. Most of the aliments people are currently dealing with will be almost gone.
I clearly feel going into ketosis after a full day of fasting.
I fast 3-5 days once a qtr and every week I fast Mondays.
If I had the money and motivation. I would start a startup that does the following: At your puberty, you bank/cryofreeze your blood and when you are the pinnacle of your gut/body health in your 20's cryofreeze your stool. Then in your 50-60's, reimplant your stool and your blood. We lose so much along the way, by the time we're in our later age, we need to reconstitute it to reinvigorate your gut and possibly reverse aliments. I truly believe this business model could work.
PS> However, now a days, if you're a dev and can show, exhibit, describe your work. In particular one you created, lead, and managed is to have articles/GitHub to showcase them. Depending on the problem and the solution you're showcasing. That could get you the interview if not the job outright since machines can't scan and quantify that so will need to be flagged for human review.
The valley generally holds ppl with VISA hostage and they prefer cheaper caught in visa trap workers. Unless you bring extraordinary knowledge and skillset, in particular Sr dev/Scientist/PhD in AI/ML/CV. Coming here would be a disappointment.
You are in the "2nd" silicon valley now making good money. I would stay there and if so inclined. Best you find a position there of an American Silicon Valley based Co you could either move laterally or travel/visit. I think that's the far better way to see what's up here before leaping into the dark waters. Silicon isn't what it used to be.
The visa trapped people are generally chinese/indian. Low salary, stuck for years competing in cutthroat environment. Not to sound too racist, if you're 6' white male with ppl mgmt, then silicon valley maybe your calling. An almost guaranteed meal ticket to success if you can make the right connections. PS> I'm not 6' white male. Places you would be good for if you're 6' white male: FAANG+M and startups.
Much disillusionment here.
Your "problem" isn't so much making more. It's simply getting more and that is a typical problem one faces anywhere. Best you boost your skillset, move to another Co for more pay. That's the only way you make more regardless of location.
TL'DR: Again, if you're trying to make more money, best you boost your skillset and move to different company. Countless stories of people jumping co and in few years literally make double coming back to the same Co. One can easily boost 10-20% then move BACK to for another 10-16%. It's incredulous how you can make the earth move while at the company, but companies are unwilling to move your salary instep. However, you can move out increase your skillset a tad, then move back only get 20% more. Why? Because NO company will give you a 20% raise. NO company. However, you coming in from outside with bit more experience in new stuff. Some reason they will pay whatever you want.
PS> Didn't address your age. 35 is pushing it. here in the valley, at 35, your boss may be at least 5yrs if not more younger.
PPS> You must be single, regardless of age. Wife....ok, kids...you won't get hired
Do I sound bitter? Biased? Full of Resentment? yup :) If you're a minority w no EQ but plenty of IQ, there is a glass ceiling made of gorilla glass v99
I love the idea of a dashboard for the 50K view then zooming into any "red." or interesting parts.
Just my 2cent. My apology if it already is since its a web interface?
else your prj urges me to get into ML. I may in near future wanting to do localized CV of faces/objects in a picture archive.
thanks for this.
Portable Monitor w/ Keyboard
https://www.ebay.com/itm/313275076315?
Kool thing about this unit is 1. builtin battery to power it and phone
2. the screen is touch screen! so basically it's a 13" interface for your phone! make ur car a tesla! ;-)
3. can be used as an extended monitor to your chromebook/laptop.
You of course need a phone that has a USB 3.1 and desktop although there are apps that can mimic and give you that FULL desktop experiences such as Userland and Leena Launcher.
And finally some apps can't expand to full or resized windows.
nevertheless, $300, very very fun to have with you everywhere.
Why better than chromebook? ..honestly don't know. I suspect I could have worked on making it happen but doing it on/from your phone so far seems fun! and of course it's always connect to the web vs chromebook needs to be tethered.
Problem Statement: Everyone needs someone. Everyone needs input, mentoring, direction, new ideas, concepts, discoveries else you feel dead inside. Googl promises contextual searching but they all feel like upsells, ulterior motive results and promotions.
IDEA/ExecSum: A.I. based cognitive search that answers to your posts, comments, emails, interests.
HOW: You give a match.com like cerebral notes of your mindset based on what you've written and browsed. then on a daily / weekly basis comes back with recommendation of forums that speaks your tongue and interest. :) Say a very intrusive script that reads your emails (ones in particular you sent to yourself), your docs on locally and cloud, your posts and comments on everywhere. Then let it psychoanalyze and come back with everything from books to posts to podcasts and maybe even real life happening to you locally.
Brain fart I'll never explore. ;)
1. HN posts feel curated, filtered, critical.
2. Regurgitating from my previous comment to OP: HN commenters are a cut above the rest. Redditers may have witty retorts but HN's commenters are very cerebral.
3. My time is precious. HN's "curated" posts and brilliantly observant comments makes my time reading it feel time spent was invaluable vs Reddit's mindless brainless doom scrolling for a single hidden diamond in the rough post/comment with exception to few subs.
I guess art is to the eye's of the beholder. I/we can't tell you if your time here is worth it, it's up to you to interpret that however, you coming here to "ask" that seems somewhat telling, don't you think?
On that vein, I found my wife of 10yrs on craigslist as she was inquiring on my laptop for sale. Everything seems to a degree serendipitous . You should give everything a try once...if not multiple times.
PS. Interesting fun movie on this note: Yes Man https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1068680/? tongue and cheek romcom, worth the life lesson(s) in it.
PPS> On what seems like a sad statement though mainly bc I'm feeling a bit melancholy lately. I wish I could befriend everyone here in HN.
1. There are posters (regardless of platform) who want to garnish attention either to...
a) get a job, since visibility is how you attract attention good or bad.
b) Plato stating this the best for #2: “Wise men speak because they have something to say; fools because they have to say something.” ― Plato I personally fall under both categories depending on subject.
c) Bored, depressed, immature commenting as the latter part of quote in #2
d) Genuinely cares and has something to contribute, this now being the "wise men" of Plato's quote.
e) Want/looking to be tribal. Genuinely lonely, wanting, needing to be a part of a collective.
2. Speaking of both Ask / Show HN, I feel most do genuinely want to know and/or what to show like your own and unlike most other platforms. Here on HN, 98% of the time, you will get sincere responses. Thus my love of HN. Unlike the narcissism in 60% of Reddit, 99.9% of 4chan and 99.99% of FB...most being just a cesspool of wasted bits.Now of course speaking only for myself. Here is me: 1. I'm an implant from Midwest to silicon Valley. Been here >20yrs.
2. what I miss dearly are conversations with well read individuals. I love the people I work with, with most having superior intellect to me however, English not being their primary, more sophisticated conversation I cannot have. I love my friends who came from afar and enjoy talking to them but I do not get the "tribal" connection I seek of being more alike. I get this "conversation" here in HN and nowhere else.
3. HN posters and commenter are like none other outside of StackOverflow ;). What I love about HN is the makeup of individuals who sincerely have something wise to say. I like to feel I'm well read and bread (not genetic ;-) but when i read people's comment like on this post, I literally take something away from every single commenter. It's overwhelm and I sometimes swell up because it gives me the connection I currently lack due to Covid lock down. The overwhelmingly well thought out and thought through comments feeds my thirst for knowledge and soul. From what you seek, although i would still encourage for you to checkin HN for such support and topics, but goto somewhere more specialized to your needs like Indiehackers.com
Also look into this post and many others like it that seems to come up periodically as some having the courage to say they are lonely..https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26293703
PS> It's the worldwideweb with no barriers to entry including negative AI bots which I feel are being strategically inserted by foreign or internal agents. Sun Tzu said it best, "To secure ourselves against defeat lies in our own hands, but the opportunity of defeating the enemy is provided by the enemy himself." Somebody has literally taken this general's advice to task. It's unreal to think that someone can let a bot roam and disseminate seeds of self destruction to break a country down from within. www has become a very very scary place. Topic for a diff post ;-)
PPS> I'm guessing you're in your thirties, single, living in a metro, disheartened by the pandemic and frustrated in not being able to find a clear path to fame, fortune and independence. Although I am a bit older, join the club! :)
PPS> Just had an epiphany that we all need besides a soulmate, is an intellectual mates too? I feel that's what I'm searching for....
I worked for a FAANG (Amzn Bayarea) for 5yrs and it was worst 5yrs of my life.
My current situation is I have Vocal Cord Dysfunction and Laryngospasm. In addition to host other problems like GERD, GI, sinus infections, cold sores. NONE of which I had before starting this job. Before this job, I was at the pinnacle of my health.
It wasn't so much the work which I actually loved, but the people and company's methodology for recognition, reviews and promotion.
It basically got down to two things:
1. Bullying.
2. Systematic discrimination.
I created an entire department from scratch, built it to 20+ people when I left and became one of the most talkabout group. I worked multiple days/nights straight, weekends and late nights to make it all work for 3+ yrs. A lot of which was getting down to my hands and knees sweat type even though I am a PM.
So what did I get? My role was replaced by an insider who influenced the hirer to hire all of his friends and replace my role as department head. Then I got relegated to the bottom of the org structure. My name is on everything on this org which eventually all got replaced by my replacements. I simply quit after all doors closed due to notes in HR files I'm sure.
My current situation with VCD/Larynogospasm. You do NOT ever want to get to this point. Laryngospasm basically is when your vocal cord closes while it's spasming and you can't breathe. You feel like you're about to die because no matter how hard you try, you can't get a breathe in. Eventually you can breath but like being water boarded, you won't die but the experience is unforgettable. I get this multiple times a day. I can't drive or even play with my kid. In addition, I also have syncope which is blacking out when you cough. There is no remedy or understanding asto why this happens except mental.
Now back to your situation. When they say stress can kill, they really meant it. I feel like I'm going to die every day because of my problems which includes syncope where I blackout coughing.
1. You need to mitigate your stress inducers
2. You need therapy to help you. Men generally don't talk and keep things in. That will kill you.
3. You must find regularity in daily walks outside with sun in nature, away from people.
4. Your own thoughts will bring you down. you must find peace by eliminating your stressors. Worse case you can't, then stop taking it personally because it isn't you, it's them.
I feel absolutely horrible asto what happened to me and feel helpless. However thinking back, I could have done more to help myself. It's all mind games. You must create strategic alliances and maintain some conduit to which people who are decision makers can see and hear you.
Ultimately I now understand the adage of "it's who you know, not what you know."
I realize now why so many upper mgmt are such morons and idiots.
Be good to yourself, talk to someone, take breaks out in nature. You MUST find release for all the stress you're going through. I cannot live with what I have. Matter of fact, I just had a laryngospasm in writing this. I'm reduced to being on my knees, gasping for air, using my O2, ventolin which none helps since they can't reach my lungs.
Letting stress take over your life will kill you.....
Good luck and take care of yourself because NO ONE will.
Nice guys truly do finish last....
It seems you simply need something in common to start a conversation. You never know where that might lead to. The funny part is, while his dog is sniffing/scoping out the other person's dog. You have nothing better to do except to why not strike up a conversation... "say..does your pooch always sniff like that?"
If you can answer that, then you've found your answer and on your way of solving one of the biggest issue straight men are facing.
I'm in the same boat as you thus scoping out HN right now ;-), but also do Reddit and Indiehackers.com. I'm finding it's harder to find someone to befriend than it was finding my soulmate! Seriously.
Other places due to my interests are arduino/ESP8266/IoT forums. As for late, I'm been active on Hubitat forums since I'm trying to hobble together a worthy home automation and security. Lot of great people but hard to "connect" as a friend in forums. They are there to find solutions, not friends or at least I think they are?
It's almost as if one needs to "invent" match.com for for friends ;-) FriendFinder site start with that mantra where the founder started out looking for golf buddies only to find out most men that are looking are looking for one thing....
Incidentally, great podcast on this subject: https://www.npr.org/2018/03/19/594719471/guys-we-have-a-prob...
I've been looking long and hard to try to find a solution to this problem. Women simply do NOT have this problem. Only men and it's becoming an epidemic of sorts. My father died "lonely", while my mother thrived with friends and same as for my in-law's. Men just do not want to talk, approach or converse with other men unless forced to. Stigma men seem to unwilling to let go.
Sorry, rambling since I got tired of coding and was looking for a break by reading HN ;-)
There are many great biz models around this topic but Corp culture and entrenchment mindset "if it isn't broke, don't' fix it" and high churn makes for difficult acquisition if you want to sell a service from outside. It's also something that doesn't really provide any tangible results outside of feel good, nice to know but won't kill me if I don't know. So because of it, it's a hard sell.
This is still one of my passion to pursue now more so because of the pandemic.
What about the newsletter are you pondering?
I wrote you a separate email .....
Some features that would be great for mediaCMS:
-OpenCV for facial and object recognition for auto identification and categorizing
-Read image/video metadata to auto title generation instead of IMG_12324_433.jpg
-A.I. to group and create a story from pics/vids based on time/location/faces etc...
and/or make it extensiveable so one could create plugins? You could create your own app store for your platform. Great way to monetize.