Allagash
It's obviously not the same as a real pin; I've yet to find a PC game that simulates nudging to my satisfaction.
One interesting data point is that my 10 year old son is more interested VR pinball than either regular PC pinball or real life pinball. I think it's because of: - the novelty of VR - the animations on and around the table (these can be either fun or distracting) - the tables are easy for a beginner - the fact he's taller in VR. At an arcade he's either not tall enough or has to stand on a stool, but in VR he can look down on the table as if he's 6 feet tall.
Pinball Arcade is working on VR version, so I'm interested to see their take on it. They mentioned it in passing for their AC/DC table kickstarter (since cancelled but still under development).