I think this wins the prize for the largest strawman in this entire thread.

If there culprit wasn't trying to get their victim publicly ostracized, they would have kept their concerns private. And they did it by framing their victim as complicit, via silence. After all, as we've recently been lectured to, silence is violence.

There is literally no other justification for their actions (apart from possibly some form of mental illness, but I'm not a doctor and unqualified to guess at that)