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Re:Beauty determines whether men romantically desire or dism... by chrisco255 on Wednesday January 01, 2020 @07:42PM (#21931955)
I dunno, depends on your perspective. If you approach a lot of potential partners, you broaden your pool.
Re:Beauty determines whether men romantically desire or dism... by ekianjo on Wednesday January 01, 2020 @08:38PM (#21932243)
Women have the power to say no as they please - they do not have to date anyone. Men on the other hand rarely refuse a potential partner. That is a major difference.
Re:Beauty determines whether men romantically desire or dism... by chrisco255 on Friday January 03, 2020 @11:21AM (#21947255)
The one who approaches and has initiative has control over the size of their pool. If you sit around and wait for potential partners to approach you, it's quite a bit more random and variable.
Re:Beauty determines whether men romantically desire or dism... by JustSomeNobody on Wednesday January 01, 2020 @09:16PM (#21932430)
Of course women don’t “have” to date anyone. Nobody HAS to date anyone. And women should have the power to say no at will. So should men. Guess what? They do!

This is some “mediocre boy doesn’t get the super hot girl so there’s some conspiracy against all men by women” BS.

Re:Beauty determines whether men romantically desire or dism... by matheusmoreira on Wednesday January 01, 2020 @09:24PM (#21932470)
> Women have the power to say no as they please

Men have the exact same power.

> Men on the other hand rarely refuse a potential partner.

True. Marriage will not be freely given, though.

Re:Beauty determines whether men romantically desire or dism... by ekianjo on Wednesday January 01, 2020 @09:50PM (#21932584)
> Men have the exact same power.

Not sure I understand your point. Several studies have already shown that men do not tend to refuse multiple partners (probably because they have nothing to lose as long as marriage/commitment is not involved). Women, however, as a general rule, do not act this way. Of course you can say men have the same power but they just do not exercise it.

> True. Marriage will not be freely given, though.

Agree

Re:Beauty determines whether men romantically desire or dism... by matheusmoreira on Wednesday January 01, 2020 @10:02PM (#21932662)
Yes. They have the power to say no but the things they say no to are different, as is the reason for saying no. In general, men and women want different things out of each other.
Re:Beauty determines whether men romantically desire or dism... by JustSomeNobody on Wednesday January 01, 2020 @07:44PM (#21931972)
I’m sorry but this is hogwash. You make it sound like men just have to settle. So not true.
Re:Beauty determines whether men romantically desire or dism... by ekianjo on Wednesday January 01, 2020 @08:35PM (#21932228)
Widely unequal for men. If you are amongst the most attractive males then you will get a lot more choice but the lower half will basically have a much smaller pool of partners (the good old 80/20 rule is at play here), unless they have significant differentiator such as wealth.