This arguing about what the word exactly means is a waste of time.
The admission policy of Harvard (an institution) has been used against Jews, now it is used against Asians. By your definition, it is racism.
And I see that your question implies a confusion: a white person needs to do nothing to participate in racism. By being white, going with the flow means receiving the benefit of these insutions. A white person could never act in a racially discriminatory way and still receive benefit.
White people need to actively dismantle the system that is racism so that it no longer benefits them. (This is the only ethical path forward.) And if white people are scared that they'll be treated the same way that they treated non white people, then they should ensure that the dismantling doesn't prop up a new oppressive system.