The reason why the "all lives matter" people exist isn't because they're honestly misinterpreting the "black lives matter" message. They're dishonestly misinterpreting it. If you worded it differently they would find a different way to dishonestly misinterpret it.
I think there's a middle ground.
You understand, that this is precisely the intent. I think the "all lives matter" was a great move by a political group to use another group's ideology against themselves. ("Do all lives no matter, only black lives matter? But you can't explain the motive behind "black lives matter" without losing the narrative).
Similarly even more genius move was "It's ok to be white". If you show outrage against that statement, you lose the narrative very quickly.
Take another example, body positivity activists talk about how magazine and women should depict "real women" instead of photoshopped models. Now lets just say the same group which came up with "All Lives Matter" and "It's ok to be white" comes up with a campaign "This is what a normal woman looks like" (in response to "This is what a real woman looks like"), and they post skinny-ish women in response. This is bound to piss off a lot of people in the outrage movement.
The question this raises is why is it so easy for you or others to get pissed off so easily with these simple, yet technically true slogans, and are they right about something?
"All Lives Matter" is simply a parody movement (albeit more serious) similar to "Harambe" meme, which was created in a response to the Internet petition culture and hashtag movements.
That is why "all lives matter" is a sarcastic, stupid thing to say in reply.
The GP commenter is straight up giving me a privilege check, would anyone actually read what I said?
And what makes you think I have no say in how "my problems" are being dealt with white knights like you?
Or a more interesting question, why are you presuming literally anything about me? Is it because I spoke against the narrative?
Saying that "all lives matter" is genius says a lot about you. Also using the expression "white knight" says the same things about you. So it's not that I'm "presuming" anything, you told me things about you.
But tell me more about your problems. I would genuinely like to hear what problems you have that you're dealing with by telling people that "all lives matter".
Go somewhere else man, we don't need that on HN.