What kind of ridiculous nonsense is this? People say opposing gay marriage causes harm because it does. There have been multiple instances and examples of gay couples not being able to see their loved ones in the hospital because they're not recognized as a 'real' couple. They died alone as their partners were turned away for the sole crime of being gay.

Your attempt to justify your bigotry is disgusting.

Opposing gay marriage causes harm because it's active oppression, and because it's a argumentative shield for people who have direct opposition to gay people themselves. There are no strong arguments against gay marriage beyond bigotry.

You don't have to pretend that you're not a bigot - opposition to gay marriage is bigotry.