That is widely considered to be Enlightenment-era propaganda, not an actual feudal practice.
> I can kill you, anytime, for no reason, without consequence, horribly slow. or whole village. the only motivation to not do so is losing a bit of wealth since you all are my property, nothing more. but sometimes I can afford to lose a bit of property, just for the fun of it.
Generally not. Most serfs had some minimal rights and couldn't be killed without justification.
Did you study this in school or read about or just watched movies?
> sky is the only real limit. so yes, comparing those 2 sends shivers down my spine too, since this is just envy.
I didn't blame anyone. Just pointing out that comparison is not really that outrageous and terrifying, mostly because it builds a straw-man out of what feudalism was about.
If you believe kings and lords were going around sleeping with brides everywhere on their first night, yes, I can see why a lot of things would send shivers down your spine.
Prima Noctis was a myth and no evidence of it every being practiced can be found.